They need to stay in the past.

One of my goals this year was to not contact past lovers, well I have failed that BIG time! I’ve been in contacted with M & Yummines. *frown* I added G to that list a month ago but we have been in contacted via text almost every other day.

Today he texts me saying that he can only control himself and that he wasn’t going to be talking to me anymore (uhh we don’t talk we text) and that he can’t handle my freak outs or the hot and cold. That I’m an nice girl but what I said about him spending time with his family last week pissed him off. *rolls eyes* uhhhh He’s the one in March who told me his family controls his entire life and that he wanted to break away from them. He works with them all and then spends almost every spare minute with them. I’m not sure how healthy that is, I don’t know I’m working at not judging, but when you tell me that you want to break away from someone then blame me for pointing out that you’re spending a lot of time with them, something is really wrong. Right now I’m in the no BS mode, I really don’t care if he wants nothing to do with me GREAT!!! Awesome one more weed to not have to continually put weed spray on.

M & Yumminess, I need to start to feel that same way about. *sighs* Nothing good comes of going back to those from your past, the same issues are there and the same reactions. So leave the past in the past and move on.