In today’s day and age it seems almost automatic to google
someone you’re dating at least to me it is. But a recent situation now has me
re-thinking my actions.
I meet BP through my recent CL ad, he was charming,
intelligent and asked me out. We met initially for drinks had a great time and
he asked me out of an “official” date for the next Friday (today) as he was
going out of town for a business trip. We texted and talked a few times during
his trip, till two days before he got back when he texts me saying that he
thought he had a stalker. I was a little confused by his statement. Well it
turns out that on Linkden it tells you who viewed you and he saw that I viewed him.
He flipped out on me stating that I had violated his privacy, and stalking him.
Don’t get me wrong I understand his feelings and they are justified
but I’m not sorry for checking him out which is a very normal thing for me and
a lot of people that date online.
So we talk on the phone and I apologize that he’s upset
about what occurred. He said that it violated a value of mine and even though
he knew that I didn’t know about that line, it still bothers him. UMMM okay
well it bothers me that you accusing me of lying about how I found your last
name.
Your sent me an email, and in that email it said your name
not sure how I went searching for that. *smacks forehead* In this day and age I
don’t understand not checking someone out. Alas in our last phone call on Weds
he told me he was going to think on things and we’d talk the next day.
Nothing! No text, email, or call. *shrugs* very childish in
my opinion but it is what it is I suppose and now it looks like my Friday night
is open again. Good think Mr. M & N are having their story time!
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