I GOT FLOWERS!!!

I can't believe I was just down and depressed about this horrid day and a delivery of flowers came in for me! I thought they were for the PC nope for me!!! Beautiful lavendar roses and orange sunflowers. I can't believe he remembered me telling him that!!!

Happy Valentines Day!

I seriously feel like crap today! I should have stayed home. I am wearing myself out and I need to stay healthy! UGH!!!

Oh yes Happy Valentines Day!!! Or for those of us that are single and have no one that is interested in sending us a silly romantic gesture, Happy Singles Awareness Day!!! I was suppose to be going to D&B’s tonight with the singles group I run but I am seriously fighting off puking so think the best thing for me to do is go home and sleep. This week is going to be BUSY BUSY BUSY at work and beyond! UGH!!!

Speaking of busy! This past weekend was just a go go go weekend. I swear I need weekends from my weekends. Sat I ran the 5K and finished 4 mins faster than last month. YEAH!!! It still killed but I did it and have a beautiful heart necklace to show for it. It was a fun morning.

Sat evening was so much fun. I got plastered haven’t done that in a LONG LONG LONG time! Seriously 3 shots of tekillya, and 6 blue moons later I was loving on everyone and anyone. *giggles* I now realize that I am seriously a drunk text er. I text ed M a few times *ouch* I know I said something’s that I had to apologize for. *ugh* My saving grace was that Z was at the party and distracted me from saying anything really stupid! *smiles* He took my phone at one point and gave it to panda for safe keeping. Z is a lot of fun and seems pretty interested. So we will see. *sighs* have thoughts here but still processing them. *sighs*

I invited M to an event with us last night and because of some family issue he wasn’t able to make it. I was disappointed but well it just shows a lot where I stand I suppose. I don’t know HE is so confusing. M’s been texting a lot lately and I appreciate it but I really just get this feeling in my gut that he’s not being honest and it doesn’t feel good. I am enjoying the talks via text but still a relationship it doesn’t make. *sighs* I don’t know. I guess I was hoping something different especially today, on this stupid retail holiday. *sighs*

I’m meeting MSTR T after work. I made him some cookies, his girlie and him just broke up and I thought it would be a nice gesture. I remember how much he likes home made cookies. So that is my cupid giving this year. *smiles*

I wanna go home!!! *blah* I swear my throat hurts and I feel pukey. UGH!!!

Can the Rollercoaster stop now?

What a roller coaster of emotions the past week has been. YIKES! You'd think with it being Friday night that I might be able to actually put the break on the car going up and around and around. NOPE!!! Its just the beginning of a really really busy weekend!

Tomorrow I do my second 5K of the year. I can't believe its been only a month since the last one, it seriously seems like a year ago. I'm excited and dreading the event tomorrow but know that in the end I am that much closer to my year goal, so that in itself is something good to think about. I need to get to bed so I can get up at the butt crack of dawn to get there...so this will be short and sweet.

M has been texting the past few days not really sure what is going on. I do like him and care about him, but I can't put my finger exactly on why I don't totally trust him. We will see. For the first time in what 2 weeks I didn't hear from MS or Iz today. A MIRACLE!!!

Egypt's President Mubarak stepped down today. Z was so excited and elated about it, its awesome news for Egypt. Z was on the news tonight talking about what it will do for Egypt and the middle east. Its pretty cool. We all went out tonight to celebrate. Z walked me to my car and asked me if I'd go to dinner with him. I feel a bit guilty because of M at the same time I am keeping my options open only because I really don't know what's going on with M and until I truly trust him and know that he's not playing me again, I'm not willing to give all of me over.I'd really like it to work between us but I have to see where it goes.

I guess Kly invited Z to the party tomorrow night, he asked if he could drive me, I told him I was going with A&K2, but he could buy me a drink. *smiles* He was okay with that.

So the roller coaster of emotions I hope is coming to an end or at least slowing down. I'm off to bed my dear Blog. Dream of me as you sleep in the am, as I walk my bootie off at the 5K!

Shame On You!

Or maybe it’s shame on me, for believing M once again. We went out last night for sushi even though I had told him via text that I was canceling and really just thought it was best for us to just go our separate ways. But after a few texts back and forth and wanting to talk something’s out I decided to go, I thought we had come to an understanding. HOW WRONG WAS I? Its okay chalk this one up to me being silly and a bit tipsy last night for what occurred but I do clearly recall the conversation at the restaurant and that we had both agreed to not say anything. AGAIN I WAS SOOOOOOO SOOOO SOOO EVER WRONG!!!


Smile Smile Smile because today is a GREAT day. Releasing of the past and starting over is refreshing. I really liked M, but I can’t trust that he isn’t playing me. So onward and upwards, life is full of smiles.

I got a phone call this morning from Z asking if I am free for dinner this weekend We’ll see what happens. When you let go of those that really aren’t all that into you, something great may come along.

I’m pretty amazing and obviously I’m not the only one that thinks that. So SHAME ON YOU!

My Feet are cold!

My feet are cold tonight. I know I know put some socks on, I'll warm up as soon as I crawl into bed in a few mins. I'm actually tired tonight. It was a GREAT evening out with my singles group for Taco Tuesday.

Z was at Taco Tuesday. He's funny, smart and has a great smile. I know silly of me to actually be thinking of someone whom I have just met, but he's sweet so we will see. He asked me for my number tonight, *giggles* not sure if it was to schedule the Salsa event or what but it was nice to be asked for my number.

Maybe Z would want to go to K's b-day party, I already asked M twice but really get the sense that he isn't interested. So not pushing it. Something to weigh about this all.

Speaking of M, he texted me asking if I wanted to go out again. I was a bit hesitant about it as I had decided to drop whatever it was between him and I, but who knows. My hopes aren't up there, but it's always good to have options I suppose. We'll see if it all goes the same way as before, dropping it won't seem so bad.

Positive note I haven't heard from Iz or MS since I called her this am. Thank the heavens, I'm so tired of it all.

And my feet aren't so cold anymore. *smiles*

Silly Girl don’t you learn?

Sometimes I wonder why I am so forgiving of people. Its not that I’m desperate in the least, trust me I date enough! I’m just picky about who I actually want to kiss. Plus 2011 isn’t about a romantic relationship. And as far as friends I have TONS and it seems that I still give a few more chances than I should. Not anymore!

So silly me has give M another chance since the whole phone debacle. Mostly because I fired Iz and realized that a lot of the DRAMA in my life had been her doing. So nice to clear out the old and just live your own life.

So I found out that since firing Iz that she contacted M on Facebook and they have been having this full on online relationship, conversation, or what not. When I confronted Iz’s BF/Fiancé he said he would take care of it. Somehow I am clearly doubting all this as MS I found out has known about it the entire time, I'm now seriously contemplating his involvement in the entire situation. For now I have told Iz and MS that I want no contact with either of them. I highly doubt that is going to happen. *sighs*

What really sucks about the entire thing is that I really like M. He’s the first guy since The Past that I allowed myself to be vulnerable with. He’s the first guy since The Past that I have felt something in his kiss over.

Yes I know you’re going to say what about Yumminess? Yumminess doesn’t count, he’ll always be there, and yes we know that there is that total connection but we also know that Yumminess and I are only ever destined to be friends. So yes M is the first since The Past that I have actually allowed myself to think there could be a relationship there. I actually allowed myself to break my rule for 2011 and allow myself to think about a romantic relationship, *Sighs* Silly girl.

The reality of the situation is that M is really not all that into me. If I think about it I’m the one that has been chasing him, texting, asking him out etc. I haven’t seen him since that one date what three weeks ago, and I really don’t think I will again. I really don’t think he’s all that into me. *sighs* but it’s really okay. Okay I just keep telling myself that…oh and to SMILE!!!

So long story short I called Iz this morning told her that my friendship with her and MS was over in no uncertain terms. I told her that I was done with M and to enjoy her life. *claps hands* So it’s done and over with.

The only really sucky thing about the entire situation is that next week is Valentines Day. The other side of it is do I really want to be with someone who really isn’t into me so for the sake of that stupid stupid day? or for that matter in general? nope! I want someone TOTALLY into ME!!! A man who understands what’s important to me in a relationship, one who tells me what’s important to him, the one who makes me feel secure, wanted and sexy. Someone romantic, sweet & giving. I’m willing to be patient and wait for it. So I will go about my Valentines as I had previously planned, attend the Singles event with my group and SMILE SMILE SMILE!!!

On a HUGE positive note, the competition is going well. I’ve lost 3 more lbs. Training is going a bit slower than I had hoped, but I just started the couch to 5K challenge so I am excited about that and have an appointment with Road Runner to get fitted for correct shoes.

My girlie group is going strong and the women that are in it are so amazing that I have to pinch myself sometimes to see if I am really real. Yesterday being a really CRAPY day they all rallied around and were there for me. I’m so grateful to them.

The new singles/dating group I started is also going AWESOME!!! We had our first event the other night and 9 people showed up. Tonight is Taco Tuesday, so who knows *smiles* I might meet someone new and all this past few weeks will truly be swept under the rug!

So I learn and the times I don’t I’m not beating myself up, it’s like running or learning to run, ya take it minute by minute and enjoy the scenery!

Some men are just JACKA$$e$

Silly me in allowing someone back into my life that has hurt me once before and who didn’t have enough respect for me to cut ties the correct way. So what does he do again? The SAME dang thing!

I went on a date with Ma few weekends ago, after some six plus months have passed, when he disappeared for no apparent reason. He texted out of the blue stating he wanted to apologize, that he screwed up and wanted to make it up to me. So I allowed him to apologize and take me to dinner.

His excuse for disappearing last time was he had been catching feelings for me and he wasn’t ready for that. So he got spooked and took off. He said he realized it wasn’t the best thing and he should have spoken to me about it. A part of me was flattered that he had admitted he had feelings for me. The other part was like uh huh, dude you’re not getting in my panties.

So the night of the date, he picked me up right on time, smelt yummy and we had a nice dinner, then drinks. He drove me home, we talked a bit, he walked me to my door, kissed me good night and said he looked forward to seeing me soon. It was a nice evening, and of course I sent a text to thank him.

During the week we texted back and forth, decided to give it one more round. I told him that it was important to me to have a man in my life that showed how he felt towards me not just say it. I told him things that were important to me in a relationship and again he seemed responsive.

So we made plans to have a LATE dinner on Sunday night. I hadn’t heard from him all day Sunday so I sent him a text. When it came time to meet I still hadn’t heard from him. That was 2 days ago and yet again he has disappeared. I’ve texted a dozen times just asking if he was okay. NOTHING!

Silly me for believing some man that he had changed and would do the right thing. Fool me once shame on you, Fool me twice shame on me. So yes I feel very foolish and silly for falling for it again, especially since that week of texting I was starting to have some apparent misgivings about the entire situation. All I can say is thank heavens that I didn’t give it up!


Update: So he lost his phone a few days ago. I received an email from him this evening telling me that he likes me a lot but that I am too pushy and clingy wanting EXTRAS from him that he's not quite ready to give me. WHAT THE HELL ARE EXTRAS?!!!!