Why do men call women drama?

Why is it that men have this un caddy way of calling a woman drama? The way they say it sometimes is like a slap across the face almost as bad as calling her a Bitch or a Cunt. Two words I despise greatly. So why is it that men say this? Do they teach them in some boy's school exactly what to say to hurt a girl?

So why am I thinking this or why am I wondering these thoughts? Well stupid me went over to Ice Tea man's house again last night. It was nice we hung out, watched the pacific, had pizza, sex (bad sex this time) and then he drove me to my car. Here is where it gets to the drama part, as we were walking out to his car he was telling me about how he didn't drink in college and some stories from his fraternity. When he was done I started to share about myself how I hadn't really drank until my divorce @ 30. That seeing your best friend killed by a drunk driver @ 16 sorta puts a damper on wanting to drink. So as I said this, Mr Ice Tea man says aren't you just full of Drama, I was like what? I said to him how is something that has happened in my life, something I didn't cause or have anything to do with make me DRAMA? To which he looked at me and said you've had a lot of drama in your life. I shook my head as the elevator showed up and got in.

It hurt and pissed me off and I thought to myself HOW THE HELL AM I DRAMA from things that have happened in my life. If anything everything that has happened in my life has molded me into who I am today. I think I'm pretty sane for having lost people in my life, children, an abusive marriage and other things, amazing how that is considered drama. I didn't turn to drugs, drinking or anything else, I learned and grew from the things that have happened to me.

I have to remind myself though that it's his issues not mine. I take the things that have happened to me and grow from them, isn't that what life is about?