Have you ever really thought to yourself what constitutes cheating to you? Everyone has different views on cheating, to some sex with another partner is just that sex, some dinner is cheating, it’s different for everyone.
So this morning on the radio the Jockey was talking about this list of things that people have considered cheating. They talked about from a peck on the lips, to dinner out with the opposite sex, to sexting, dirty dancing at a club. It got me to thinking I wonder what G (the new man in my life) considers cheating. After all everyone has different views on cheating, intercourse could be acceptable to some where as a peck on the lips is a full on break of trust and confidence.
So I decided to ask G and this is what he said *smiles* “I look at cheating as emotionally or physically sharing yourself with someone other than your partner and keeping it from them.” I thought I had fainted and gone to heaven for a moment there. Did he really just say that? It was amazing that we both looked at cheating the same way.
Don’t get me wrong we do plan on having amazing sexual adventures in our relationship, but we’ll be doing them together and always open and honest about the situations. And I am sure there maybe a time or two that miscommunication happens, but for the most part it’s so different to be in a relationship where you’re both on the same side of the path and look at things very similarly.
It’s a different sort of relationship this one. It feels solid and strong; I’m really excited to see where it goes. At least you know we won’t be cheating on each other. *smiles*
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