I saw following sign the other day and thought to myself why can't we have a sign like that on our hearts?
I mean seriously if you had a sign on your heart that others could see maybe they wouldn't be so nonchalant about how they treated you. Maybe just maybe if they knew that if they trespassed on your heart they would be prosecuted to the highest degree of the law....maybe SHOT!!!
Heartache hurts. Its one reason why I have this love/dislike with internet dating. It's wonderful to be able to chat with someone on line and learn things about them before going on. Its nice to eliminate that sorta first date nerves, because you've already chatted and hopefully are on the same page.
The thing is that first date has to happen...and hopefully you were smart enough to not meet someone that is past a 30 mile radius of you, Especially if you are looking for a LTR. More than 30 miles from you and really you're just asking for disaster. So you're on the first date (okay let's back up here. HE HAS TO ASK YOU OUT ON A FIRST DATE WITHIN THE FIRST 2 WEEKS! and it has to be at least 5 days out. If it's not well read what could happen in my other posts...married/cheating/not really interested) Okay so you're on your first date, and there is chemistry, just not enough!!! That is why I say meet someone quickly so that you aren't wasting your time...and remember 5 dates!!!
So what happens if you do meet someone that is out of the 30 mile radius? Well here is what happens, you're going to have a long distance/text/IM relationship. What happens if you seriously fall for the person? For me a relationship is someone that you spend time with off line...you create memories with. Sure you can share your day and all that online, but at the end of the day your computer is not going to bring much comfort or snuggling when you lay down to bed.
The dislike part of online dating is the fact that you can easily fall for someone. That fairytale love because to be honest you have to take what the person is telling you as the truth. Online you can be anyone you want to be, and there are a lot of people who make things up out there. It's funny I never really thought that I was the type to fall for someone online, but I'm scared that might be happening and to be honest it's not a fun feeling. Knowing that you've meet someone that is 3 hours away whom you want to tell everything about you to, but you hold back because you realize once again that you might be walking into that Trespassing section of your heart. Strange, I really thought that my heart was protected in this bank vault that could NEVER been entered again by anyone, the key was thrown away and only one was made.
My fear is that we will really never meet (2012, is the end of the world after all *giggles*). Or that my feelings are unfounded, or that really he doesn't feel the same as me, or well there are lots of the What if's again!
My heart, mind and soul all private property, trespassers will be prosecuted!
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