Rules of Dating! Okay more like guidelines for S's world to follow.

So much has happened since my last entry. Well I have sorta come to the conclusion that Trojan Man is really only looking for sex. We had it as I blogged last week, then had it again the next day. Then it gets strange. I guess he was feeling a bit rushed by me to a relationship, he's not ready for that he says and he's not emotionally available. Well that Sunday I flipped out on text msg. on him when he hadn't replied back after like 7 hours. He said that he didn't want to deal with that sorta of stuff.

Well after a few days and my drunk GF's texting him he decided to give me a second chance I suppose. We ended up hooking up again and the sex was AMAZING, but now a few days after it I am seriously sensing that its not what I am looking for. I like him a lot don't get me wrong but there is just things missing. Respect, wanting to treating me right etc. So the entire situation had me in a 3 hour conversation with Lex were I came up with some dating rules for myself. I thought I would share them with ya here.

• 5 dates before having sex.

After 5 dates I should know if he has the 5 essentials I am looking for in a man. Which
are: Communication, Honesty, Respect, Integrity & Romance.

• Single

Single. That means Divorced-Not Separated. Not Divorced and still living with ex. Or just
broke up with GF the night before.

• Emotionally Available

Has to be open to starting a relationship full heartily. Had ample time from a divorce or
break up.

• Has a job

I'm not a gold digger, BUT, I do want a man that has a good job. That pays his bills, has
money to take me out to dinner, the theater, movies, buy me things. That's important.

• Communicative

Someone that is going to talk with me. Not over me or going to force me to pull things out.
Someone that doesn't talk to try to impress me or tell me what I want to hear.

• Do not go over to their place or invite in to mine

This is just asking to have sex!

• NO drugs or smoking

I've never done drugs don't desire a man that has. Smoking just makes you smell and dies
earlier.

• Clingy but not

He has to be interested in my life, knowing what I am doing without being over bearing,
controlling or stalkerish

• Similar Interests

Have things in common. Live theater, movies, country music, reading, game boards,
camping, hiking, cooking, good wine, not closed to trying new things.

• Has to be SMITTEN with me

He has to be totally into me!!!

So those are the rules. The things I am going to try my hardest to live by while looking for that not PERFECT man. Because really who IS perfect in this world? Not I said the the cat in the hat. Not I!