I wonder sometimes if we should look at a persons saved radio stations before going out with them. Could pre-set radio stations tell us if we are compatible or not?
I've gone on two dates with Mr. Smooth since Sunday and I can now see why 5 dates would totally tell me if the person is someone I want to spend time with or not. But radio stations are were it can start. Wouldn't you want the person in the car with you to feel comfortable or wouldn't you ask what type of music they listen to and possibly find something compatible to that? Or maybe that goes back to manners and wanting to make the other person feel comfortable.
I think the thing that is bothering me about Mr. Smooth is a few things and its making me realize that I am so grateful for my 5 dates rules. Its reminding me that what bugs a person at the beginning of a relationship is USUALLY the reason why you are breaking up.
So tonight this is what happened. He invited me to his place for dinner, Although one of my rules is to not do that for 5 dates I couldn't help but feel special that he wanted to make me dinner. So I agreed. Since he lives on base we had to leave my car at the trolley parking and go to his place. First we had to go pick up a pitcher to make Sweet Tea with (I thought this was really sweet that he was making sweet tea, considering he remembered that I don't drink soda and wanted to make me feel comfortable). Well after we went to the store we got back into his truck and his seat belt is very difficult on the passenger side to buckle. I was having a difficult time and he got frustrated helping me, cursing and throwing things. After he got the belt buckled I just sorta looked at him with this smile confused look of thinking to myself WHAT? I'm not use to someone getting so upset and impatient over little things in life. I actually thought he was upset at me and this didn't make me feel very good. But I said something to him and he said no no please know it wasn't about you.
So at his place. He proceeds to make the Sweet tea with the new ice tea maker, but put to much water in the thing and it poured out the back. He got very upset about this cursing and throwing things around again. I just looked at him smiling and again shocked inside. I said on the bar stool watching him clean up and when he was done I just said to him. I'm just not use to someone so vocal and upset over little things. He replied well that's me. I just docked it in the back of my head.
But what really got me this evening was when he dropped me off at my car. He didn't get out of his truck and walk me to my car or even WAIT till I was in my car and safe. That blew me away. He was driving away before I even got to my car. I understand he was tired and all but come on make sure the woman is safely in her car.
So the things that are bugging me now going to be the reason why Mr. Smooth doesn't make it to 5 dates? Or is it that his pre-sets are not even close to mine? HMMM maybe I should start asking about radio stations instead of are you single?
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
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