Thursday, January 18, 2018

And the thoughts turn moody

I asked A last night if he wanted to be in a relationship with me? I needed to have that clarified after everything that has happened. I don’t want him to feel obligated to be with me for standing by him, that’s not why I did it.  I did it because he needed someone there, I choose to stay because I understand why the things happened and am working through those I don’t. Life isn’t black and white there is a grey and sometimes you have to be okay with living in that area.

Last night I thought a lot about moving. I didn’t think about moving with K but just my own place again. I don’t know why. I love my husband, I truly do and I don’t want to get a divorce. I just feel very guilty lately about wanting to spend all my time with A. I don’t know if I’m a terrible wife or what. So yes I’m feeling guilty.


My cycle is going to start I know this, next week sometime. I just need to de-stress and sleep. I just need someone to want to take care of me for a lil bit right now, but that is to selfish of me I know that.  So for now I just need to focus on what the moment and breathe.

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