Tuesday, January 9, 2018

standing by ones morals

How do I stand by my ethics and morals when I feel like walking away from A is also having me compromise those? I don’t know what to do with my life or myself anymore. I love A I know he isn’t the best for me I know this; I also know that well he’s hurt and in pain right now. How can I just leave someone that is broken? I’ve been there and people have just left me before.

BF2 feels I need to that I am compromising my path and myself. That if I choose to stay connected with him that it would affect our friendship. That I can’t keep him in a nice lil box and away from everything else in my life. Right now I don’t know what I can do, I don’t know why I am having to make this decision right now. I need space to figure my head out.

I realized driving to work today that he had been thinking about it for a while. It’s why he made sure that I took everything with me every time I stayed over. So many signs that I wish I had seen and had stopped and asked him are you thinking of hurting yourself? But how could I have known? I didn’t know, he just seemed tired and depressed about school.

I’ve never been this side of someone actually hurting themselves of actually succeeding in getting this far in suicide. Its hard to understand someone when they are sick and I praying that he will get the help he needs. I just wish it was much easier than this for me to make a decision about my future and life.

Maybe it is time to just walk away from everything in the community. Maybe its time to just cancel the conference and refund money. I don’t know. I just don’t have it in me right now and my lil she’s just hidden. I don't have the energy to pull this off. I can't do it alone. 


Too many big things to figure out in life. Too many decisions to make and all I want is to be held and told it will be all okay.

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